Lena, your wound was just starting to heal, when this man arose in your life again. Such stories are tormenting with their uncertainty. Therefore, it is important to understand what you can do personally to finish or facilitate your suffering.

There is no question in your letter. I suppose this is not without reason and indirectly says that you are confused. Let me fantasize. It seems that you want to answer your question: is it worth it to believe a young man and resume relationships with him?

Obviously, he brought you a lot of pain in the past. Parts are sometimes experienced by us more complicated than the death of loved ones. After all, in the case of parting, there is a hope that it can still get better. And now you have almost come to terms with what is happening, when suddenly he appears again in your life and wants to resume communication.

It is not very clear what is meant by communication. He wants to be with you? Offers to live together? Promises to divorce or offers you to become his mistress? Is he going to dissolve a marriage with his wife? So far, there are few specifics. It is natural that you do

not understand where the truth is here.

This man is in the transitional stage. The marriage has not yet been divorced. You should determine for yourself what you want from him. Perhaps you will arrange to become his mistress? Or it is important for you that it divorce? Designate your boundaries in a relationship with him. Determine your needs. This is the only way you can not lose yourself and avoid new suffering.

My advice to you: look at specific actions, denote the boundaries, needs and terms to which you are ready to expect from him any specific solutions. First of all, it is important to do for yourself. You need to understand what you are ready for and what is not. So you can save time and avoid false illusions.